I Will Hold You Forever

Jasmine’s Birth Story 

Being her birthday I decided it would be a good time to write about her birth. Jasmine was born on May 20 at 4:20pm Via Emergency C-section. To bring her into this world wasn’t easy. It was a very long and hard process. Here is her story: 


It all started On May 18, I was 38 weeks pregnant and felt as big as a house. I had a schedule ultrasound appointment at the hospital to check the size of my baby. The doctors thought she was going to be close to 10 pounds. A few weeks before, My baby was breached so the doctors were concerned all around. 

2D96E99F-33D1-445C-A047-E9B7D65C6526That morning I only had something small to eat that morning. The morning sickness I had in my first trimester started creeping back in. I wasn’t feeling that good and I was exhausted.

As far as I could tell the ultrasound was going great. My baby was no longer breached. Then the ultrasound tech told me that she would be right back which had never happen. I already had mom instinct and knew something wasn’t right. The tech came back into the room and she said I would be staying in the hospital. 

At this point, I had been having contractions for two weeks now. The doctor thought they were Braxton hicks. I was told to just drink more water. I knew deep down they weren’t. It turns out I had been losing fluid and was 3 centimeters dilated. I was told I should have a baby by that evening.

They took me a couple of floors up and to the other side of the hospital to the birth area. The nurses started preparing me for the birth of my daughter. Everyone who came into the room said “Oh you just had a contraction you should do an epidural soon before it’s to late.” The contractions I had the week before were worst then these. I decided to wait for the epidural until my husband and mom came. Once they came I was told I’m dilating 6 and how things will be moving fast. I decided it was time to get the epidural because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. It turned out to be the worst decision ever and I would regret it greatly. 

After the epidural Labor stopped cold. No more contractions. I also stopped dilating. What the doctors and nurses don’t tell you is once you get the epidural you can’t really move. You are not allowed to walk around or even go to the bathroom. So there I sat in a room with my husband, his mom, my mom and tons of nurses and doctors coming in and out to check on me. Everyone of course was telling me to rest because it will be time to push soon. 

This was the hardest and most stressful time of my life, how could I rest. I was worried about everything but most of all this little human inside me. All I wanted was to protect her. Keep her safe as long as I could. I was already her mom. 

While we waited for my contractions to start again, I got infection. It had to be treated. I was told my baby would need to be treated once she was born also. She would have to go to the NICU for 7 treatments a total of 6 days. 

I cried after that most of the time. I was in pain all over even through the epidural was supposed to keep the pain away. It wasn’t working. I’ve had 5 different epidural put into place. 

I was completely exhausted. It was now 33 hours later and still no baby. But I was dilated 10 and ready to push. My husband grabbed one leg and the grandmothers watched as I pushed with all my might and everything I had in me. I push for 4 long hard exhausting hours. Then the doctor called it. She said I will need a C-section to keep the baby safe. 

After that doctors drug me up and wheel me off to another room. My husband comes in wearing a suit over his clothes. His face showed how scared he was. It was super scary. The medication that they gave me made me shake. Which made him look even more terrified.

The doctors tell you that you will not feel a thing during a c-section. That is a lie! It felt like they ripped my daughter from my insides. I felt it all. She came out crying and was rushed to the other room. I told my husband to go with her and doctors told him to go back with me. She was perfect and healthy. They just had to prepare her for her treatments because of my infection. 


I was in and out of it after that for hours.  Then around 8pm they let me see my daughter but I couldn’t hold her. All I wanted was to hold my little girl. Being told I couldn’t hurt me so much.

She was in the NICU and I was in my room. 11 floors were keeping us apart and a team of doctors trying to get me healthy. I had blood in my urine and super dehydrated. I was in the hospital for 48 no water or food. I had so many sad feelings. I wanted to breastfeed 🤱🏻 I knew the longer I was away from my baby the harder it would be to do that. Finally at about 8pm May 21 I got to hold and breastfeed my baby. She was the biggest baby in the NICU.


5 days later we went home and I haven’t stopped hugging, holding and snuggling her since!


The birth of my first child was hard and exhausting but it has given me so much love that my heart could burst. 


Today She is now 9! She is my bug hating, unicorns 🦄, mermaid 🧜🏼‍♀️, slime loving, always keeping me on my toes, beautiful baby girl. 



Who doesn’t want to be a Mermaid!?!


With AquaMermaid everyone and anyone can become one during this unique swimming class. AquaMermaid is a class that teaches you how to swim like a beautiful mermaid. While expressing yourself in a unique way with a mermaid tail.

My follower on instagram know that every Monday I do #MermaidMonday This wonderful class I give me the opportunity to experience what it’s like to be a mermaid. I got to see my little girl swim around like a Mermaid 🧜🏼‍♀️  It was the most magical experience.

I first became aware of AquaMermaid classes through Pearachute. I’m glad because every Sunday my daughter get to be a mermaid 🧜🏼‍♀️

AquaMermaid operates in six locations throughout the US and Canada. One location being my hometown Chicago.

AquaMermaid also has this great mermaid tail which makes a great gift. They come in 3 lovely colors blue, pink and green. The mermaid tails come in kids and adults sizes.



High School Sweethearts


This blog is from my heart; it’s about how I met my dream guy, my soul mate, my everything. I started dating my husband Jose in high school 20 years ago today. How we got to be might not be romantic to some but to us it’s the most magical story ever. I don’t know if anyone would even read this; I just know this is something I should write about. So this is the story of how we came to be.


In 1997, I enter my sophomore year of high school as Jose was entering his freshman year. This year I had decided to change from PE to JROTC mainly because all my friends were in JROTC. Jose had also signed up for JROTC. We by chance ended up in the same 5th period class. Of course I didn’t notice him for some time. We talked occasionally since we were in the same class and hung out with the same people. Let’s face it when you are in high school everything is about looks not personality or charm. He had this hair that I just hated. I couldn’t look past that 😂.

In November of that year after Thanksgiving break Jose came back to school with a haircut. That is all it took, I started to notice him everywhere. We started running into each other between classes and talking more. He started sitting behind me in JROTC. He also started to have lunch with me. This is because from time to time he would end up in-school suspension and they all had lunch my lunch period. He was a bad boy making him even more appealing to me.

At the end of March 1998 JROTC started preparations for the military ball. This included a dance class where in true Jose fashion he had to show off. He knew all these fancy dance moves like the waltz. This made him mysterious and even more attractive to me. Shortly after that he started walking me to classes. We started talking on the phone every night. During this time we got to know each other, we fall madly in love. We became each other’s best friends. The rest is history as they say is history. It hasn’t always been easy but I wouldn’t change any of it. Today it’s 20 years and two kids later; I love him more than ever.






Codeverse Summer Camp

It is super cold in Chicago with the prediction of snow ❄️ every day this week. What other perfect time to start thinking about Summer camps. I found out every other parent was also looking and a lot of the best camp were already filling up fast. In my search I came across this great camp called Codeverse. Codeverse is a fully interactive coding studio for kids ages 6-13. They offer camps and classes.

Coding is not just a job but it’s now a required skill. The Bureau of Labor Statistics projects 1 million coding related jobs by 2020.

Whether your child is new to coding or has been grabbing for the family iPad since they could walk. The curriculum is designed to be engaging and easy to digest for children of all experience.


Codeverse has crafted their own computer language, named KidScript. The classes, during camp, focus on a new topic each day, culminating in a hands-on project. Topics include coding, 3D printing, robotics, and laser cutting. There will also be field trips to local businesses and time allotted for outdoor recreation.

With kids getting things like Hour of Coding in school and games like Minecraft at home; kids are surrounded by coding. My daughter is so excited to be going to Codeverse this summer, your kids will be too.

Lincoln Park
819 W. Eastman Street
Chicago IL 60642

‪Mon-Fri‬ ‪from 9am – 3pm‬
Offering complimentary one hour early drop off 8am and one hour late pick up 4pm
(for busy/working parents)

Camp Cost: 
$800 weekly (mention this blog for $200 OFF!)

Camp includes:
All coding activities, field trips, lunches and snacks

Divide in two groups
Grades 1-4
Grades 5-8







Family Fun with The Wizard of Oz

This past Saturday I got to show my children a magical story I loved as a child. Growing up The Wizard of Oz was my favorite story and now my children love it just as much as I do.

We got to follow a yellow brick road with Dorothy & friends to Emerald City to meet the wonderful powerful OZ! Big Noise theater put on the greatest adaptation of a wonderful classic. The music and dancing will keep the audience of all ages entertain. Great your family together and go see this great show.

$15 All Ages

January 13 – January 28, 2018

Saturdays at 10am & 12pm
Sundays at 10am
Wednesday, January 24 at 10am

Prairie Lakes Theater
515 E. Thacker Street
Des Plaines, IL 60016




Mommycon equals Community

MommyCon is the largest natural parenting consumer show in North America.

To me Mommycon is more of Community, Friendships, parenting partners, non-judgment advice, mom dates, play dates and much more!

Mommycon has grown so much since the first event in 2013. One thing hasn’t changed, It’s still a way to connect with like-minded care givers. Care givers who are just like you & have no idea what they are doing. Care givers who want friends that are going through the same things they are. Who else knows what it feels like to wake multiple times a night to a teething baby. Or how to do matrix moves to avoid being peed on.

So,If you are going to any Mommycon/DaddyCon/gather event turn to your right or left and say hi. You might just meet your new best friends. I know I have!






Unique Holiday Gifts for Unique Families

The Holidays can be a stressful time for some. People with big families stress on what to buy or what makes the best gift. Other people just hate shopping or don’t know what to get.
All those reason are why I have decided to put together this holiday guide.           What makes my holiday stand out over other holiday guides is most companies are mom made, mom ran, & mom owned. Also that most companies featured in this blog are offering my readers discount codes. Discounts will be listed at the end of the blog.

Gifts for the Kids who have it all 

Pearachute is changing the way parents and children share, discover, learn and play together. It’s the new way your child gets to enjoy classes they love and without being locked into a 5 week class that they end up hating. It gives you the freedom to try classes until you find one that you & your child love. They have gift cards, credits, and monthly membership. Pearachute is located in Chicago, Dallas, Kansas City, San Francisco, and Washington, D.C.

Who doesn’t want to be a Mermaid!?! With AquaMermaid everyone can become one during this unique swimming class. AquaMermaid is a class that teaches you how to swim like a beautiful mermaid. AquaMermaid operates in six locations throughout the US and Canada. One location being my hometown Chicago.

AquaMermaid also has this great mermaid tail which makes a great gift. They come in 3 lovely colors blue, pink and green. The mermaid tails come in kids and adults sizes.


Babies, Toddlers, Toys and more

Stainless steal rattles, teethers & flatware sets. I love that you can get the Kleynimals toy keys personalized, making them a perfectly unique & keepsake gift.

Chompy Chic Chewlery
Chompy Chic Chewlery are Teething necklace and other teething accessories. When you think teeth necklace you think female caregivers/baby gift. That is true but I have to say they make great male caregivers/dad gifts also. My husband has a great custom-made teething necklace. The owner listened to what he wanted and put it together prefect. Great for all ages

People Toy Company
This company has these great educational toys for all ages.
The infant toys help with brain developmental. They help your infant achieve cognitive and physical skills through fun, interactive and connected play.
People Blocks are great magnet blocks. They get you toddlers and preschooler’s brain working on what they will be building.

Olie’s is a kids fashion and accessories. My favorite item by this company has to be the Minkey. It’s a hat, scarf and glove combination. It’s great for the winter and great alternative instead of a jacket in the car seats. Size NB to 4T


Check Designs
Check Design is Custom made sewn gifts. I’m a big fan of the sport team slippers. They also has great poncho coats, that work great with the car seat.

This bib is the best. It’s mom made so she gets how hard it is to keep babies clean during meal time. What other bib keeps the baby clean and your high chair. Just take off and shake out.

Spoon Cocoon
This product Is really for the family on the go. It makes meal either at restaurants, visiting family or friends easier. It’s great for traveling also.

Evenflo Feeding
The BALANCE + WIDE NECK BOTTLE are providing a complete line of feeding solutions for your baby’s changing needs. This bottle is the best for all babies; even breastfeed babies.

Gifts for Adults/ Parents/ Nanny

MommyCon is a nationwide convention series dedicated to creating and nurturing a community of parents and parents-to-be in celebration of natural parenting.
MommyCon is a place you can build a community that understands what motherhood is not what instagram makes it look like.

If conferences are not your thing MommyCon also has a great shoppe. That includes everything tee-shirts, toys, teethers, menstrual cup etc.

DaddyCon is the ultimate dad focused parenting convention. Dads need a community also. They are the only other person who know what your child is asking for when the say “ogurt”

The very First DaddyCon is in Chicago on March 3-4. With more locations and dates to be announced.

Feminist inc
Tee shirts for all the family. My whole family has shirts from this company. They have great strong messages on all shirts.

Little Oak
Wood watches hand crafted with styles for women and men. You can get the watches personalize engraved. For every wood watch sold 10 trees are re-planted.

If you have been following my sites you know I love everything in this guide.

Nanny Tee
Humorous Tee-shirts, apparel and other accessories for the Nanny in your life. https://www.nannytees.com

Discount codes
Use RHONDA2017 to receive 4 credits for $1 or a special discount off other memberships.

Mommycon and DaddyCon
Use STRC18 to receive 10% off any ticket at any location

Little Oak Store Use RHONDA15 for 15%off

AquaMermaid is offering 10% off mermaid tails with promo code CHICAGO
Mermaid tails for Kids and Adults

Chompy Chic Chewlery use Nannyrhonda for 20% off

Nanny Tee
Use coupon code RHONDA to save 10% on apparel valid ‪11/27-12/3‬

You also check out my FB page for more discount codes for other companies and I’m always updating those codes.

NOTE: Head over to my FB Page to enter the mega giveaway with some of these great companies.  Will be posting shortly